Most stone damage isn't wear — it's a wrong cleaner or a missed sealer. Both are easy to avoid.
Calcite stones drink liquids and stain from within. A penetrating sealer buys you time to wipe a spill before it sets; reapply when water stops beading on the surface.
Lemon, vinegar and many bathroom sprays etch calcite on contact — a dull mark no sealer prevents. Neutral pH only, always.
Design choices can reduce the risk too — see using stone well.